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A Personal Thought on "What Most People Do..."
Hi Everyone,
I hope you're all doing well! I wanted to share some personal thoughts and experiences regarding a common phrase I often hear: "what most people do is..." While it might seem harmless, I've found that it can sometimes do more harm than good in various aspects of our lives.
Health:
When it comes to health, particularly regarding medication and recovery approaches, following what "most people do" can be misleading. Not everyone responds to medications in the same way, and recovery is a highly individual process. My own journey taught me that listening to my body and working with trusted healthcare professionals yielded far better results than following the crowd.
Finances:
In the realm of finances—whether it's about investments, savings, debt repayment, or purchasing decisions—the idea of conforming to what "most people do" can lead to unfavorable outcomes. Unique financial goals and situations call for tailored strategies rather than generalized advice. Following a path tailored to my needs has helped me achieve better financial health and peace of mind.
Entrepreneurship:
For entrepreneurs, especially regarding social marketing, acceptable expenses, and pricing strategies, it's crucial to understand that what works for the majority might not work for you. The entrepreneurial journey is inherently unique. Accepting this has allowed me to innovate and find success on my terms, rather than falling into the comparison trap or fearing failure because I didn't fit the mold.
The harm in this phrase lies in the outcomes of comparison, the fear of failure, and the constant questioning of "what's wrong with me?" I've never been like most people, and I've found that understanding and embracing my uniqueness has been key to my success and well-being.
Instead of saying "what most people do," I recommend using more inclusive and personalized language such as:
- "Perhaps you may want to..."
- "Depending on your desired outcome, you may want to try..."
- "People who have the outcome you want recommend..."
This approach feels less manipulative and more supportive, acknowledging that most people are not necessarily healthy, wealthy, or exceeding their own expectations professionally.
Thank you for taking the time to read my thoughts. I hope you find them helpful and consider them in your own communications. Let's celebrate our unique paths and support each other in finding what truly works for us.
And remember: Next time someone says "most people do this," remember, you're not most people. Trust your own path! It's not only OK to not do what most people do, it's often the better path!
Keep the Faith,
xo Kate
